Thus taking every possible spontaneous feeling out of the act. The Groping: 'You can pull my underwear off here and I'll help on this side.' 'If I say 'baby,' it means you're grabbing me too hard.' You verbally plan your gropes with the other actor, integrating them into your dialogue and your moans. They give you a false sense of comfort, until you look in the mirror and realize everyone can see your totally exposed breasts - with this little decoration on your nipple. Because from that view you can't see the underside curve of your tits. Wearing them, you look down at yourself and think, I'm covered up. They allow you to show enough boob that you look naked but it's not considered topless. The Pasties: You stick these sunflower-shaped, flesh-colored Band-Aids on your nipples for sex scenes. But onscreen French kissing just looks biology-documentary strange. Which feels weird and takes getting used to because it's almost instinctual to use your tongue. You open your mouths together but don't do anything else. The best onscreen kisses are when two actors sort of eat each other's lips. Meaning you don't actually put your tongue in the other person's mouth.

It is, however, an incredibly intimate experience - but not in the way you might think.

But shooting simulated sex doesn't feel hot. Yeah, once the music supervisor lays the perfect track and the editor cuts it to flow better than it ever does in life, it looks sexy. Which isn't that insulting because neither do I. The line feels more like a challenge to get them aroused, which, honestly, they rarely do. They must teach guys this line in drama school because every actor I've ever done a love scene with has said it to me - just before he mounts me.

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